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Love & Relationships
Love and Relationships explores the beauty and complexity of human connections. Through heartfelt stories, insights, and lessons, this category delves into self-love, romantic relationships, friendships, and everything in between. It’s a space for growth, vulnerability, and celebrating the power of love in all its forms.


Another Piece of the Trauma: The Day My Mom Died
The day my mom passed away was the day my life changed forever. It was Saturday, May 11, 2024—the day before Mother’s Day. That was the...
zariahperkins
Feb 9, 20253 min read


To My Dad, on Your 63rd Birthday
Hey Old Man, As I sit here reflecting on the love we share, I can’t help but think of how much we’ve grown together. Our relationship has...
zariahperkins
Jan 30, 20252 min read


Rooted in Love
I’m realizing more and more the depth of my kind heart and loving spirit. This unwavering, almost overwhelming love I carry for humanity...
zariahperkins
Dec 21, 20242 min read


Seeing Humanity: Love as the Bridge to Connection
I’m coming to realize that truly connecting with people on a deeper level requires both individuals to be whole. When one or both parties...
zariahperkins
Nov 29, 20242 min read


Seeking Radiance in a Dim World: A Call for Connection
I’m coming to terms with a sobering reality: no one truly cares about me and my needs the way I hope or expect them to. Or maybe they do,...
zariahperkins
Nov 28, 20243 min read


A Scent of Home
I’m training myself to shift my focus—from who hasn’t shown up for me or what I’ve lost, to who is here, who has stayed, and who has...
zariahperkins
Nov 17, 20242 min read


The Beauty of Imperfect Alignment
Focusing too much on the future brings anxiety; too much on the past brings depression. Right now, I’m choosing to live in the moment—and...
zariahperkins
Nov 13, 20241 min read


For My Dad's Heart
I’ve been struggling to communicate my needs with the people I care about most, especially with those I truly need right now. I want to...
zariahperkins
Nov 12, 20242 min read


Lessons of a Hopeless Romantic
I love deeply, quickly, and freely. My love is fierce, wholehearted, and a little naive. I tend to believe that just because I love so...
zariahperkins
Nov 12, 20242 min read


A Thought on Relationships
Relationships serve as mirrors, reflecting both the unhealed parts of ourselves and the spaces where growth is needed. They challenge us,...
zariahperkins
Nov 9, 20241 min read
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